Simple Tips to Help Your Child Adjust with Their New Siblings

Simple Tips to Help Your Child Adjust with Their New Siblings

There is nothing more joyful and exciting than bringing home a new bundle of joy! A new baby can also bring changes to your family. This is especially true, if you have an older child.

These changes can be hard for older children to handle. Remember that they have been the only child at home for a long time. The good news is that you can help your older child adjust to the new addition to your family.

Simple Tips to Help Your Child Adjust with Their New Siblings

Here are 5 ways to make sure that your older child adjusts well to the new baby in your family:

  1. Prepare: Make sure that your child knows that there will be a new baby and make him a part of preparing for its arrival. Including him throughout the experience will make them feel involved and secure.

  2. Talk about his role: It is important that you talk about the importance of being a big brother and the role he will have in his sibling’s life. This way you can involve him in childcare too.

  3. Make time: Be sure to make time for your older child even after the new baby’s arrival. He will still need loads of cuddles and time with you.

  4. Talk about feelings: It is also important for you to talk to your child about what he feels about his new sibling. Encourage him to express his feelings openly so that you can help him adjust.

  5. Show gratitude: Always show your appreciation for your child’s efforts in trying to be a good big brother. This will make him feel special and a part of the new family dynamic.

What Might be the Reaction of Your Older Child?

Your child might be quite enthusiastic when they hear that he or she will have a sibling. But things might change when you bring your second child home. Your older child might have second thoughts. Depending on their temperament, you will notice various changes in their behavior.

In the case of highly-sensitive children, you need to tread carefully to not negatively impact your relationship with them. These children need more time to adapt to the changes.

Things to expect once they get to meet their siblings:

  • They may regress back and show behavior that you expect is long gone. This may include clinging to you or asking you to feed them. They may do these things to test whether you still love them or not.
  • They are likely to get your attention more when you are busy taking care of the younger child.
  • They may try to poke or pull the baby to express their feeling toward them.
  • They may throw tantrums or not listen to you when you are busy taking care of the younger sibling.
  • They may ignore their younger sibling or may try not to interact with them.

Why Should You Help Your Older Children Adjust to Younger Siblings?

With the arrival of a new sibling, your older child may go through a flurry of emotions. They may feel excitement, jealousy, or even embarrassment. It’s your duty to keep a proper balance between them so that there is less conflict and stable development.

Here are some of the benefits of proper adjustments for older children with their younger siblings.

  • Strengthen the bonds between you and your kids 
  • Your older kid is less likely to misbehave or cause trouble  
  • Your older child will start caring for their newborn sibling
  • Less stress for you and your children

Dorothy Hastings

Dorothy Hastings is the Director of First School, which are three Preschool and child care centers located throughout Southern California. First School provides a hands-on approach to preschool education and child care programs that emphasizes all around child development. In addition to their intuitive academic approach, First School also focuses on developing a child's social skills and self-confidence, which is made possible in their intimate learning atmosphere.

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